You can meet potential dates at a singles event or singles activity.

Meet single volunteers, meet dates at charity fundraiser, singles wine tasting, dining club or dance.

You can read about his exploits over at This Is Trouble and on Twitter. San Diego is one of those cutthroat cities – where, if you have your shit together, getting laid can be as simple as shooting fish in a barrel.

In San Diego it’s not that uncommon to walk into a venue and see four or The reason for this: There are some 7 bases within 15 miles of each other in the actual city of San Diego, plus Camp Pendleton only 30 miles up the road in Oceanside.

Attend social networking at the hottest singles party.

A San Diego singles club will have a social mixer sponsored by a singles group.

If you don’t want to spend your time hanging out with your neighbors’ kids, make sure you live in one of the hot spots.

It may cost you a few (hundred) more bucks a month, but it’s worth it.