But, more than the inter-caste marriage, marrying women from abroad has become a craze now.There are several Indian men who migrate abroad only to fall in love with beautiful white women.All this time I sort of thought that if I were younger, or maybe if I’d never been married, or if I didn’t have my lovely daughter in her last year of high school that maybe I could have a relationship with an Indian man.

If I saw a another Black woman with an Indian man I would think nothing of it, except to notice that she was broadening her horizons, and we would all be served well by doing the same.

Whether they’re instantly suspect or think he’s cool, he better prepare for some teasing. Their personal struggles have nothing to do with you. Image Source: You are a smart, attractive, well-educated black woman.

You wince every time they call him “the white boy” or ask why he likes chocolate, but you’ll just have to talk to them about that later. He’s going to feel some sort of way if he finds out you’ve been spilling his tea in the street. You should really be dating a smart, attractive, well-educated black man. Image Source: Sometimes brothers take it hard when they see you out with someone for the other team.

Image Source: Shutterstock.com“Is it true what they say about white men/Indian Men/Chinese Men/Mexican Men? Image Source: If you’re the first person they know in an interracial relationship, you’re sort of like an ambassador. ” Image Source: It’s 2013, but some people still have strong opinions about interracial relationships. The thinking may be old-school but it can be hard to shake the feeling. Hearing “she thinks she’s too good for the brothers” or “he couldn’t possibly know what to do with that” can be par for the course.

Get ready to be the go-to person for questions about his race, your race and what happens when the two races get together. Image Size: How can anyone not have seen “The Color Purple? Image Source: It crosses everyone’s mind when you first start dating. Sometimes you just have to roll your eyes and play through.