I spend most of my day locked in my cell but over the years it's become normal.

I've learned that when you're going through hell all you can do is keep on going.

It would take a very powerful love to stay with a partner who is ready for the rocking chair.

At 40 a person is vigorous and still going strong in all ways.

I’m still sexually active, though, and I have to add that my sex life may be somewhat racy at times, but I make no apologies for it, nor do I try to lead a secret existence beyond what’s normally expected to be private. I realize that my chances of having a romantic relationship with younger men are not so simple, and the old adage that “age is just a number” may suit men more than women due to expiration date on beauty and fertility.

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with what I’ve said so far, except for the fact that I date and have sex with men who are significantly younger than me. However, I cannot get myself attracted to men my age or even slightly younger. With younger men, on the other hand, everything flows perfectly when it comes to sex.

In his book, “Dataclysm,” he points out that who we want to be and who we really are can be two very different things.

Because those cologne-wearing, Dolce-upgraded, French-press-drinking, 30-something hunks are a whole different animal. He likely believes he's seen everything, or at least more than you because he's older, so prove him wrong. He'll be impressed and allured by your precocious disposition.4. You can't get totally obliterated Saturday night and ruin the whole next day because — guess what? Don't talk about the age difference — but if he brings it up, play it coy.

I consider myself extremely lucky that younger men still find me attractive, so I have no problems in finding takers for my little forays. Men my age approach me at times and they are absolutely pleasant to be with, but I still cannot get myself to consider them as sexual partners.

It’s been 15 years since the last time I went to bed with a man older than me, and you might as well make that 25 years since he was only one year older.

To tell men NOT to feel this way would be akin to telling them not to breathe.

Now, I don’t always agree with all of the conclusions that Rudder draws from his Ok Cupid data.